Changing the conversation about work and cancer

Cancer and the Menopause: It’s Not Just About Women Getting Older.

Barbara Wilson, Working With Cancer.

So, here’s the thing.

I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2005 and because of my diagnosis had to give up 10 glorious years of being on HRT. That was not unusual for my kind of breast cancer which is oestrogen receptive. Accordingly, I resigned myself to coping with the menopause again (I had already experienced some hot flushes and sleepless nights before going on HRT) as well as the after effects of cancer treatment. I realise now that I was a victim of my mother’s generation of ‘just get on with it or give up work’ mentality (and just to be clear my mother who was widowed in her early 50s (in the midst of the menopause) worked until she was 70).

What I find interesting – and frankly that is an understatement – is how little attention health professionals and society as a whole has given to the fact that many women, and many men undergoing hormone therapy for their cancer, will experience menopausal symptoms as a result of cancer treatment. And of course, many young women will experience it far too soon and suffer enormous emotional distress as well as physical discomfort as a consequence.

When I was being treated for cancer menopausal symptoms were dismissed as just yet another side effect of treatment; at least the cancer had been caught early and I had a good chance of living at least 10 years (although in my view at the age of 54, what was then a 65% chance of living 10 years was not nearly good enough – “But what about the other 35%?” I asked).

The menopause, as many now acknowledge, is not something to dismiss as a joke that ‘older ladies’ experience. When you add cancer on top of that, it really is no laughing matter. As a professional woman working in the City, it was a nightmare trying to cope with the impact of cancer treatment: muscle pain caused by the medication, peripheral neuropathy, fatigue, and then on top of that the hot flushes, foggy headedness and the emotional highs and lows resulting from the menopause, made even worse by the treatment and medication…and, I’m sorry to say, my younger colleagues’ judgement.

So, what are the implications of this.